WHO SHOULD BE BLAMED FOR THE UNREST IN SCHOOLS?
PARENTS ARE TO BE BLAMED FOR THE UNREST IN SCHOOLS
INTRODUCTION: In today's
family situations, effective parenting has never been more crucial. This belief
arises from the idea that effective and good parenting can have a significant
impact on how children behave in the future and how they affect the people and
society around them. For a long time, psychological and psychosocial research
has shown us that parenting without a solid foundation can lead to confusion in
a child's development.
Although
other factors as peer influence and other childhood events have been influenced
children's behavior, parental involvement has frequently emphasized due to the
level of influence parents have over their children when compared to other
factors. As a result, parents should take responsibility for their children's
behavior. As a result, parents should withstand the worst of the blame for
their children's misbehavior.
In many
cases, parents do not hold their children responsible for their faults because
they always cover them up, leading the children to believe that the act was
legal. When their children engage in inappropriate behavior, parents should
learn to reprimand them. Furthermore, their response to their children's
misbehavior should be one of deterrent and warning. At times, parents react
passively. They give in to their children's misbehaving because they do not
want to deal with the issue, which just exacerbates the child's behavioral
issues. When parents are unable to comprehend their children's motivations for
bad or improper behavior, their children are more likely to wind up in risky
and tragic situations, such as becoming juveniles. For example, when a parent
is summoned to school because of his or her child's bad behavior, he, or she
tends to support the child instead of first listening and the judge the whole
story.
Sometimes,
even when parents do everything in their power to establish excellent moral
values in their children, there are occasions when they should not be
responsible for their children's behavior since all parents want to raise
morally upright children. Parental responsibility is not blamed because
behavior is influenced by a variety of external factors, according to critics.
Parenting is the first step in teaching children discipline, which is often
overlooked by critics. The foundation they establish for their children will
carry them through their entire lives.
CONCLUSION: Parents play a
critical role in their children's development, and the children's success is
largely dependent on the foundations laid down by their parents. Most studies
show that parents are to blame for their children's behavior; therefore,
parents must play a larger role in shaping their children's future in terms of
morally acceptable behavior. Influencing a child's behavior should begin with
establishing a close relationship with their children and using their authority
over their children appropriately, but not coercively. Who is to blame if
parents are not held accountable for their children's behavior? It is their
responsibility to raise the children to be disciplined and responsible members
of the society.
Good post
ReplyDeleteGreat essay that has valid statements especially the way you have taken us back reminding parents of their duties of parenthood...keep it up
DeleteBrenda good job keep it up I love the fact that you have shown how parents have neglected their duty👋👋
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